people react differently to the same gestures, situation or experience... for example not all people find flowers romatic, some might find it the most romantic gift ever, might meen more than dimonds to one girl and to another it might be too lame and might even consider the guy cheap for not getting her a valuable gift.. u might consider the latter shallow but belive me sometimes under all the smiles this is how some people really feel..
we can't expect how people will react, not all the time at least, we may know people well enough to think so but u know we're not always right, we can't expect them to react the way we would or the way we hope them to... we dnt have that right, and if they react differenlty we can't judge that.... u can't control it, we can only control our side of actions... let me clarify here
we can't hurt people and make belive we're only sparing them more hurt down the line,
we can't be mean to people or just back off their lives in some way or the other and think that we're helping them forget ..
we can't expect people to value the same things we do, belive in the same things we do , or apreciate them
we can only choose to stay or leave... we can choose to help or walk away... and that's our choice and we have to deal with the results...
sometimes we can't even predict how we'll handle certian situations ourselves, we discover that we are moved , attached, weaker or even stronger than what we pictured ourselves or fooled everyone around to be..
we may find out that we love, hate, need or even can't live without certain things.. and are puzzled of that .. cause this wasn't in our plan
it's alright to mess up sometimes, break apart sometimes and feel utterly stupid some other times....
we're human .. we have needs .. yet we have sometimes to belive in who we are, belive in what we want and what we are... yet we have to give space for other people to do that same
we'll its a bit incoherent post... but i know if u can get something out of it , it will do you good.
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may be ur words is right from one corner or too... but sometimes we just know the reactions of some people n we step on our feelings sometimes pride for them even if they will never apreciate it
may be u'll see it if u r on the other side
after all how do u know that ur words gonna do good to someone if u can never expect whut people gonna feel.....
just sharing some thoughts ....
peace honey
maybe sometimes u we just expect too much.... to avoid that one day many days away from that one to wonder what if i did more, maybe sometimes we just can't move on unless we're drained and disappointed to the maximum, maybe sometimes we can't let go untill all the pieces are broken till there's nothing to break anymore... maybe sometimes felling pain is better than feeling nothing at all :S
i dunno secrets maybe if i knew i wouldn't be writing all this here
maybe i know and i am in denial i need to feel there are other people out there who just know how this feels
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